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Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi's of Colour #8

bisofcolour:

There were never any bi’s of colour in the past.

Also known as: This is just the latest trend.

Most likely to come from: Black lesbian, gay and trans* people.

The history of people of colour has been ignored and erased for hundreds of years. The word, bisexual, like homosexual and heterosexual, are relatively recent additions to our language. However bisexual behaviour has been going on throughout time. From the Babylonian writings in Gilgamesh, to the poems and life of Langston Hughes in the Harlem Renaissance, bisexuals of colour have always existed.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi's of Colour #7

bisofcolour:

Hot black bi babes? Cool!

Also known as: I can finally get a date!

Most likely to come from: Straight and bisexual white men.

There’s a stereotype of a hot bi babe who will be young, attractive and sexually adventurous. This is often compounded by ethnicity. Black and minority ethnic people are often seen as hyper-sexual. We are supposed to be wild, passionate creatures. However this myth can lead to us receiving unwanted sexual advances, harassment and violence. Bi’s of Colour are in charge of our own bodies. Who we share it with is up to us.

Mythbusters for Bi’s of Colour #6

bisofcolour:

We blacks have to stick together. 

Also known as: What will the neighbours think?

Most likely to come from: Black straight, lesbian, gay and trans people.

Black and minority ethnic people are not a monolith; trying to force that view stifles all of us. Diversity only adds to the strength of a community. It is a good thing to support people who make up our groups. Bi’s of Colour are not divisive or confused. We want to celebrate who we are.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi’s of Colour #5

bisofcolour:

Isn’t it against your religion?

Also known as: I don’t want to be here when your god decides to smite your ass.

Most likely to come from: Black and white straight people, regardless of their faith.

Religion and Faith can be a positive part of our lives. There are bisexuals of colour who are Muslim, Christian, Pagan and more. There are also bisexuals of colour who do not practice any religion at all. It is a false assumption to expect all people of colour to follow a faith, and for that faith to condemn anything other than heterosexuality.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi’s of Colour #4

bisofcolour:

Black bisexuals spread sexually transmitted diseases.

Also known as: AIDS is all your fault.

Most likely to come from: White and black straight people. Sadly, also from black and white lesbians

Unsafe sexual practices and intravenous drug use are the most common ways to spread sexually transmitted diseases. Bi’s of colour are no more likely to contract or pass on a sexually transmitted disease than any other sexually active person. Safer sex and regular health checks benefit us all. Stigma and shame for our sexual orientation doesn’t help anyone; in fact, it can make someone less likely to look after themselves.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi’s of Colour #3

bisofcolour:

Blacks are exotic, so I guess it’s natural you’d be bisexual.

Also known as: Let’s get back to our roots. Naked!

Most likely to come from: White people of all sexual orientations.

There’s a common myth that people of colour (especially women) are exotic novelties. We are often fetishized by white people. This is also the case in white lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities. We are seen as sexual objects for the pleasure of white people only. Bi’s of colour aren’t solely interested in sex. There are celibate bisexuals of colour, and those who are part of the asexual spectrum. Regardless of our sexual activity, it is up to us how we chose to explore it. It is insulting to assume our orientation is connected to the colour of our skin.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi's of Colour #2

bisofcolour:

You’re copying white people.

Also known as: You’re a sell-out

Most likely to come from: Black straight people.

This myth is damaging and hurtful. Black and minority ethnic bisexuals often face isolation and exclusion from our ethnic communities, from lesbian, gay, transgender communities, and from white bisexuals. Racism, and biphobia affect our daily lives. It can be difficult to find a place where we feel we belong. Bisexuality, like all other sexual orientations is not something just for white people. Bi’s of colour are proud of our heritage. We are not selling out of our lives.

Bi's Of Colour: Mythbusters for Bi’s of Colour #1

bisofcolour:

Black and Minority Ethnic bisexuals do not exist.

Also known as: all bisexuals are liars.

Most likely to come from: Everyone, everywhere.

Bisexuals are one of the few groups in existence who are regularly asked to prove that they are real. Black and minority ethnic people are often expected to hate anyone who is not heterosexual, so when we say we are bisexual, we are faced with shock, disbelief, and treated as if our lives are a joke. Bi’s of colour exist, period. Some of us are visibly out; some of us are not. Believe us when we say we are bisexual and proud.

Research on LGBT Identities in Bisexuals, People of Color & Women

There is growing scholarly recognition of the experience and diversity of sexual orientation beyond “heterosexual,” “gay,” and “lesbian” identities, and this recognition has led to challenges to the traditional stage models of sexual orientation identity development.

Scholars have found that bisexuals experience identity processes differently from the way lesbians and gay men do (Fox, 1995; Klein, 1990, 1993). For example, some individuals may come to bisexual identity after self-labeling as lesbian or gay. Others may identify bisexual feelings from childhood onward. Still others may not become aware of bisexual feelings until after experiencing heterosexual relationships or marriages.

Further, stage models do not account for ways in which the boundaries between Eurocentric notions of culture, sexual orientation, and gender identity are blurred and reconstructed in non-Western contexts (Brown, 1997; Gonsiorek, 1995). One such example is the existence of “Two Spirit” identities that blend Western notions of gender identity and sexual orientation within Native American communities (Brown, 1997).

Across cultures, LGBT identities have different names and meanings. Researchers are providing new perspectives on the experience of multiple and intersecting identities related to race and ethnicity, nationality, and sexuality. Research regarding the ways race and culture interact with the experience of LGBT identities in the United States has expanded (Boykin, 1996, on African Americans; Diaz, 1997, and Espin, 1993, on Latinos; Manalansan, 1993, on Asian Americans; Crow, Brown, and Wright, 1997, and Wilson, 1996, on Native Americans). Beyond the United States, scholarship on the intersections of LGBT identities and nationality is expanding as well, particularly in reference to Africans, Latin Americans, Middle Easterners, and South and East Asians (Ben-Ari, 2001; Kapack, 1992; Kovac, 2002; McLelland, 2000).

Additional research addresses the influence of gender, socioeconomic class, ability, and spirituality on LGBT identity development. Regarding gender differences, women’s non-heterosexual identity processes have most often been presented as paralleling those of men, yet a number of scholars indicate that women may come out and have intimate same-gender experiences at somewhat later ages (Brown, 1995; Sears, 1989).

Recent research explores LGBT identities related to social class and class systems, posing questions about how non-heterosexual identities intersect with class privilege and oppression (Becker, 1997; Raffo, 1997; Vanderbosh, 1997). Scholarship is emerging that addresses ways that identities of people with disabilities are influenced by LGBT identity processes (Clare, 1999). DuMontier (2000) hypothesized interactions between sexual orientation and faith development, and other authors discuss specific religious traditions and sexual orientation identity (Love, 1998).

By expanding the theoretical bases for understanding LGBT identities beyond those represented by white, Western men in the foundational models of homosexual identity formation (such as Cass, 1979 and 1984, and Troiden, 1979), researchers provide a complex picture of non-heterosexual identity. They highlight the social context of non-heterosexual identities across cultures and draw attention to the diversity that exists within LGBT communities.

bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun
bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun
bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun
bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun
bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun
bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day
Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun

bisofcolour:

Naughty Stories for BiVisibility Day

Bi’s of Colour hosted a session as a fundraiser for the group and to also celebrate Bi Visibility Day which happened on Sept 23rd.

Several people attended, to enjoy lovely cupcakes, and listen to the erotic fiction of J. Applebee.  Jacqueline read stories that reflected the ethnic diversity of bisexuals.  It was an enjoyable way to celebrate our sexuality in a positive and fun way!  Everyone left with smiles and even more cake!

you all always look like your having so much fun

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